Good Friday

Looking at Facebook this morning I saw this of the Diocese of Saginaw pictures for Good Friday. St. Mary Cathedral is using St. Andrew's church during construction. I really think this cross in front of the altar is a powerful symbol.

Holy Thursday

St. Dominic's Parish

SS Peter and Paul Site

Saginaw, Michigan

Palm Sunday

We worked with a severe handicap - No Pat. But Nancy, Jean, Sue, Gary and I got it done.

Seeing the palms stretched on the frame behind the cross made me smile. It's one thing to search the Internet for palm ideas and quite another to take the leap of faith to buy a shower curtain! It worked.

Gggrrr

Pat put his back out. He went out to the garage to make a frame for a project at church. Bent over and when he stood up it hurt.

Praying this is a small problem that rest and heat will fix in a short amount of time. Last time it took a year.

Manchester by the Sea

OH MY GOODNESS!

WE HATED THE MOVIE!

We wait for most movies to come on cable. Some, like the Shack, we go to the theater. Today the weather in Michigan is windy, rain/snow, very cold. So we decided to look at my "Movies we want to see" list and hunker in on the couch with blankets.

Manchester by the Sea had such good reviews. So many people recommended it. It was depressing, jerking back and forth in time, and the ending - just plain stupid.

If you're wondering if you should rent it - A GREAT BIG NO FROM PAT AND ANOTHER ONE FROM ME.

Fractions

Yikes! Fractions!

When I was in 5th grade we switched to "new" math. So I learned exponents instead of fractions. I never got fractions.

Tonight Ayva needed help with a pizza project tonight. All fractions.

We got a good start.

We worked on making the pizza and coming up with fractions. I must say it was much easier coming up wirh art projects at the other house.

Ayva was amazing coming up with taping over the felt pizza toppings.

Caroline is on the bad list. Saying I did the easy part with Ayva.

Lent in New Jersey

David Haas posted these pictures of St. Paul the Apostle, in Princeton, New Jersey. 

I love how they used lighting to set the Lenten mood.

And.... Lent in West Allis

Kevin Bourassa's church - had great Palms on the pews. He was kind to send close up pictures for me.

Big Brother Love

Grandma Caroline took Ayva, Javier and Romeo out for a walk after dinner. Romeo collected rocks the whole way. When they returned home Javier made an ocean for Romeo. The rest of the night Romeo played with his ocean.

Mmm... yummy dinner at home

I made Tom and Jan potatoes for dinner.   Potatoes, onion and carrots with salt, pepper, garlic powder, Mrs. Dash with butter all wrapped together in foil. Baked for an hour at 350.

Burgers with olive oil, red wine vinegar, salt, pepper, Mrs. Dash, garlic powder and Thyme. Pat grilled them.

Yum....yum....yum...

Grocery Shopping

We were supposed to go grocery shopping on Friday - that was a week ago Friday. But instead we were planning a funeral. Needless to say we have been busy and then too tired to go and then it was the weekend and I just couldn't face shopping with people who hate shopping on Saturday and Sunday, but have no choice.

Today we HAVE to go. There is nothing in the frig and the cupboards are bare. Maybe it means we can get back to "normal" whatever that will now be.

UPDATE: EASIEST SHOPPING TRIP EVER! 1ST DAY OF SPRING BREAK AND NO ONE WAS SHOPPING. THANK YOU GOD.

Boys for the day

What a fun day. We had Romeo and Tino for the day. They were so good. We made tents. They loved hiding. Then Pat came back from his Mom's and we made pizza. I'm so sad I didn't get a picture of them making pizza. More bacon went in Tino' s mouth than on the pizza.

Then the built with blocks. They both have good fine motor skills adding "just one more" to the tower.

They got out the Melissa & Doug toys. The pizza and the coffee maker. I love those toys and so do they.

Then we colored paper plates. And Papa got out all the binoculars. For at least an hour they used them to look at the river, the sky and each other.

Then Grandpa came to get them and Nana and Papa took a nap!

Dad saying I love you

When I put together the photo board for Dad's funeral Pat broke down when he saw this picture. He said his Dad always let all the kids climb all over him. It was a good memory.

Saturday night that picture fell off the board. I put new tape on it and put it back on.

As we left the cemetery yesterday Pat transferred the picture board to Mary's car. On the way back be bent over and picked up this picture. It had fallen off again.

Once maybe - twice - that was an, "I love you, son." from heaven.

Thank you, Joanna. A wonderful post.

Pat's Dad was buried today. The past few days have been filled with love. He was a wonderful man. This was his obituary. 

Paul Clifford, age 95 of Midland, Michigan, passed away Thursday March 16, 2017, at his home.   Son of the late Clyde and Ursula (Sterling) Clifford, Paul was born August 31, 1921, in Bay City, Michigan. He graduated from St. Joseph High School. He met his wife, Fern (Crower) Clifford, at the Red Lion in Bay City and they were married at St. Norbert's Parish in Munger, Michigan on December 27, 1943. Paul and Fern just celebrated 73 years of marriage.

Paul sailed on many Great Lakes Freighters, including the William Edenborn, John Hulst, Henry C. Frick and the Leon Fraser, where he was known by the nickname, "Iggy." He served in the United States Army during World War II. He went to work for The Dow Chemical Company and retired after 30 years of service. Paul was a longtime member of St. Brigid of Kildare Catholic Church where he served as an usher and was involved in many other activities. Paul and Fern are current members of Blessed Sacrament Church.

Paul was a lifelong artist and a member of the Midland Artists Guild. At the age of 80 he had his first public art show at the MidMichigan Medical Center. Paul enjoyed softball until the age of 85, playing pitcher or outfielder on city teams and the Dow League. He built two homes for his family one in Bay City and one in Midland. He had the reputation for being able to fix anything. Paul had a saying for just about anything and his grandchildren, in particular, loved hearing them. "Do you think the rain will hurt the rhubarb?" was one expression. And his very favorite quote, when you asked him where someone was, usually was answered, "They went out behind the barn and the hogs ate them!"

Besides his wife, Paul is survived by their children, Catherine Clifford (Denis Portier) of Lansing, David Clifford of Lansing, Bernard (Bonnie) Clifford of Seattle, Washington, Daniel Clifford of Almont, Patrick (Mary Ellen) Clifford of Freeland; and Mary Clifford (Steve Hammond) of Midland; 13 grandchildren; 10 great grandchildren; 5 great great grandchildren; his devoted sister, Millie (Chet) Pawloski of Bay City; sister-in-law Betty (John) Clifford and many beloved nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Paul was preceded in death by his brothers, Francis “Joe”, Bob, Bill, Fred and John Clifford; sister, Marie (Fred) Meyer; and special daughters- in- law, Karen Clifford, Paula Clifford, Connie Erway and Jan Craig.

The Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated 11:00 am Monday, March 20, 2017 at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church with Fr. Kevin Maksym officiating. The rite of committal will be at 2:00 p.m. in St. Agnes Cemetery, Sanford with Military Funeral Honors being provided by the Unites States Army and the Midland Area Veterans. Family will receive friends on at the Wilson MILLER Funeral Home, 4210 N. Saginaw Rd., Midland on Sunday 2:00 pm - 8:00 pm and at church on Monday from 10:00 a.m. until the time of service. A Christian Vigil service will take place 7:00 p.m. Sunday at the funeral home. Memorials may be offered to Catholic Relief Services via Blessed Sacrament Church. Personal messages of condolence maybe offered to the family at www.wilson-miller.com

Life Throwing Curveballs

When I become self absorbed in my own life and then I see something that shakes another family in a much more difficult way, I wonder how their faith survives.

My friends lost their son. At the same time my friends cancer came back. They still stepped up being there for their daughter-in-law and grandchildren. Always there for them. Coaching, school trips, family gatherings. Then today, the daughter-in-law may have cancer and has to resolve other health issues before surgery.

After just seeing The Shack, my belief that God is right there with us all the time, was reaffirmed. But I pray that my friends feel God's love and protection surrounding them.

Asking for prayers for our friends.

Cookie Butter

Oh where have you been all of my life?

Pat and I wanted to take a day trip somewhere. It was cold, but very sunny. So we decided to go to Trader Joe's and Whole Foods in Ann Arbor.

On the way there I read reviews of Trader Joe's. There were such sweet comments. From helpful store clerks and nice customers to even cash out people getting a bouquet of flowers for customers having a difficult day.

One of the comments was about making an hour drive to buy cookie butter. Cookie butter? Never heard of it, but I was intrigued.

Oh my goodness!

Yum!

Yum!

Yum!

Now I'm looking up recipes to make with cookie butter and pinning them to my board just for cookie butter recipies!

Afternoon with Nana

Pat, Jesse and Caroline went over to see Grandma and Grandpa this afternoon. The kids came to play with me.

We had fun. And they tried the cookie butter we bought at Trader Joe's yesterday. YUM!

               Making and drinking coffee

      Building blocks in the old Stroh's case

Ayva's Super Dolls

Javie throwing blocks into the box

Clifford looking over the situation

Cars.....Grrr....

I have had it with cars. Sheala's, Pat's, and Caroline's.  I love my Equinox - it never gives us a bit of trouble.

Hospice

Pat's Dad has his cancer back. Hospice has now started. He seems so tired. I don't think it will be long.

Pat is spending a lot of time with him. I am so thankful that he is doing so much for them. We are so thankful for his sister, Mary, living there. His sister, Cathy comes for a few days every other week so Mary can get away.

Saying prayers that his journey home is peaceful for all.

Lent - St. Dominic's - SS Peter and Paul Site

Nancy had a vision for the wall sculpture. We used the panels separately before, but this time Pat screwed them together.

Ron had old rusty barbed wire in his barn. We didn't know what we were going to do with it, but told him to bring it. When we kept looking at it rolled up on an old piece of barnwood it looked so good we decided to keep it. Then Jean brought out the burlap, rope and spikes. Then we got all the rocks. The wire, ropes and spikes look as if they are waiting to be used. 

Wow!

Lazy Day

Welcome to my world! Babysitting the boys while Jesse is at work. Easy Peasy.

Another nice day

Although not as nice as yesterday we still sat on the porch for a bit today.

Tomorrow is supposed to be around 60°.

All of these taken within five minutes out the window of our condo.

Busy Time for Pat

Pat has spent so much time with his parents since Dad broke his clavicle. He goes every day for hours at a time.

Heartland Home Health Care is managing Dad and Mom's health right now. It is a relief to get some help.

We bought a lift chair for Dad. It works like a charm. We were so worried about Pat's sister, Mary lifting him out of his chair. That's a good way to put out your back and knees.

So now they have nurse visits which includes drawing blood so Pat doesn't have to take him out in the cold. Physical therapists to get them both moving because this has been a difficult winter with him in his chair and her in bed for most of the day. An Occupational therapist to give them help for showers and such.

So with Pat gone so much I should be working on my book.......

Shadows

This shadow is on my wall. It's from the sun coming through the window.

I love sunlight and the shadows it makes.

Will he be my Valentine?

                      It's a trick question
               He already is my Valentine!

Nice Afternoon - Perfect Timing

A nice day with friends.

                             White Chili

Thanks to Clarence I have these pictures below for you!

Cobb Salad

                          Crunchy Asian Salad

Warm Asparagus Salad

Reese's PB/Potato Chip Bars and

Pecan Pie Bars

We had nine people from my class for lunch. Elinor, Kathleen, Clarence, Joan, Barb and Pat, Bill, John and Mary Beth, and Pat and me.

It was an easy lunch chili and salads. Always nice to sit and talk with such lasting friends.

Pat had to keep leaving the room because after begging the doctor's office to figure out why we didn't have a call from Health Services for 8 days they finally figured out they never requested it. So now everyone wanted to get help for his parents right then.

Thankfully the last few classmates had their coats on when we had to leave to meet the nurse. 

She was very helpful. After a few calls to medical supply stores (she called and handed the phone to Pat) we decided to go to the store on Tittabawassee to purchase a lift chair.  They told us Medicare was available after the doctors office filled out lots of paperwork! Not!

They offered to pay the tax and that actually saved us more than what Medicare would reimburse.

So ten days after he broke his clavicle the chair should be delivered today. Dad has not been able to get out of his chair without someone pulling him up by the waistband. That has been Pat's sister, Mary, for most of the time.

Day Three Prep

How did I ever entertain when I was working? Having ten classmates over for lunch tomorrow.

Tuesday
Cooked chicken

Wednesday
Grocery shopped
Did Laundry

Thursday
Baked rolls, 2 cookie bars
Hard boiled eggs
Bacon

Tomorrow
Make dressings
Assemble salads

Good thing I love to entertain!

Thank you St. Anthony

I wanted four white platters and four colbalt blue soup bowls. Lately we have had more than eight people for dinner and I figured twelve would be better than eight.

I had purchased eight of each last year at Dollar Daze. I was a bit worried about the soup bowls because I went to three Dollar Daze stores to buy the original eight.

Stopped at Shields store, nothing. Went to Midland store and found the platters. No soup bowls - and actually neither store had colbalt blue anything.

As we were leaving the parking lot we passed the Goodwill. I said we might as well look there.

On the way in I whispered to St. Anthony that I could use some help. Not even ten feet into the store the matching cobalt blue soup bowls were sitting on the shelf.

Thank you St. Anthony.

Sheala Sleeping - her head resting on my lap

Sheala studied for three hours on our living  room floor. About 2:30 I saw her rubbing her eyes. I told her she needed to rest a bit. So this is one happy Nana. I won't take a picture of her sleeping, but this is her studying.