While I was caring for my Mom twenty-five years ago, I came home one night and as I drove into our driveway this song was playing. I knew we were close to losing Mom, this song meant the world to me in that moment. It still brings tears to my eyes and they are rolling down my cheeks as I write this. That time taught me so much, about myself, the reasons why we are here, our responsibilities both as the caregiver and as the loved one dying.
This year Sheala will be married. She was such a gift to my Mom when she was born early enough to bring love and comfort that last month to her great grandmother. This wedding preparation has made me think a lot about Mom.
